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12 October 2007 @ 06:00 am
Love Our Lurkers Day  
Bonnie from My Bottom Smarts is heading up the Love our Lurker's Day.

To Quote Bonnie who always knows how to put things so eloquently (not because I'm too lazy to make up my own stuff or anything...):

"Dozens of spanking-oriented blogs are dedicating this day to their silent supporters. It's our second annual Love Our Lurkers day. And we do love you. While we may not see your face or read your words, we know you're out there. Even in silence, your return visits provide a gentle affirmation.

I would like to invite you to leave a comment below. It can be as long or short as you choose. You can use a fake name or no name at all. What's important is that you poke your head up just far enough that we might see you."

I really would welcome a hello from any of you who may read my Livejournal and who have not ever left a comment. Today is our day to honor you for your diligence. I really appreciate all of your support. Now is your chance to give me and many other's a wave.

If not that is cool too. Just the fact that you bother reading is enough! Either way I love you, and thanks for your support!
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( 29 comments — Post a new comment )
(Anonymous) on October 12th, 2007 03:27 am (UTC)
I keep checking your blog but there is never anything on candy.
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 13th, 2007 01:13 am (UTC)
LOL You made my night! Keep checkin back, there's bound to be something on candy sooner or later!
(Anonymous) on October 13th, 2007 04:25 am (UTC)
Still no candy. The wonderful thing about jujubees is that you chew them and then form them around your teeth. Very scary and an instant halloween costume. I like to do that to the trick or treaters to scare them away so that there are more Jujubees for me.
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 13th, 2007 01:32 pm (UTC)
LOL The more jujubes the better!!
rumantic: alcohol pain[info]rumantic on October 12th, 2007 08:24 am (UTC)
Hello!

How interesting that this should be the first new post in your journal since I started reading.

I've been a bit of a silent lurker for years. I'm only just gaining enough confidence in myself and my thoughts to be able to speak to anyone openly. I found your blog by chance and it touched me - this is the first spanking-related thing my livejournal account has had anything to do with.

I still have doubts about myself. I still have many days when I feel sick with disgust at myself but slowly I'm coming to accept that it's who I am and that there are people who will help and support me. So I'd like to say thanks to all you bloggers who have helped people like me, because I think everyone goes through the stage of thinking they are the only one.
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 13th, 2007 01:20 am (UTC)
rumantic,

I'm so happy that you are feeling brave enough to start posting different places. It makes me feel good that my blog may have touched you in any way. Take it slow and let yourself explore your feelings, it's the best way. Yes I agree with you, I think many people go through the stage of thinking they are the only one. Thank you for your comment.
(Anonymous) on October 12th, 2007 02:49 pm (UTC)
RE: LOL Day
Hi Juju!

have I told you lately that I read your blog regularly and that I really like it? No? Well, I should have. You do a great job and often present perspectives I hadn't considered.

Thank you for all you do.

Hugs,
Bonnie
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 13th, 2007 01:32 am (UTC)
Re: LOL Day
Bonnie!!!! I have had a warm place in my heart for you ever since you first posted a comment here. I didn't put a tracker on my blog at first, in fact not for a long time. I still hardly look at it, though I have one. I forget it is there. So I had no idea who was reading my blog or how many people. You sort of woke me up a little bit and you don't realize it, but you helped keep me blogging. HUGS to you, Juju
(Anonymous) on October 12th, 2007 03:22 pm (UTC)
I admire the candor of your writing. The underpinnings of our fetish fascinate me because I think in a way it makes us feel not alone. I'm sorry that you were mistreated growing up---there's certainly nothing erotic about that---but knowing that a grown woman has overcome (or is overcoming) all of that and still longs to be draped across a man's lap kicking her woes away, is.
I admire your courage and desire to plumb your depts as it were---just go at your own pace.
It would be interesting to hear what you crave now.
Warm Regards,
M
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 13th, 2007 01:54 am (UTC)
M,
Hey there! I agree there are some interesting things in relation to our kink, including the vast history of spanking of children and the emergence of adult spanking as part of mainstream adult erotica. Hmm, maybe I need to do a blog post on my current spanking cravings. I enjoy being spanked, over the knee with the hand the most, that is my current favorite. It just has that naughty girl feel to it. I also enjoy some bondage, not extensive, but enough to make me feel restrained sometimes. I want to try more spanking of men, the trouble is even the men who say they want me to spank them, end up preferring to spank me. Go figure. The abuse I suffered is not erotic, but it was many years ago. I never did really deal with it I think, so I have started to sort of talk about it more. Many people find the accounts interesting because they didn't get "beaten" as children and have no idea what that was really like. Warm hugs, Juju
paul1510[info]paul1510 on October 12th, 2007 04:27 pm (UTC)

JuJu, need I say that I rate you highly.
Warm hugs,
Paul.
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 13th, 2007 01:56 am (UTC)
Paul,

Right back at you!
(Anonymous) on October 12th, 2007 06:12 pm (UTC)
Hey Girly, It's just me. I'm sorry I comment as much as I should. Please know I'm a major fan. Hugs! Sugarpie
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 13th, 2007 02:00 am (UTC)
Sugarpie,

I'm always glad to hear from you and know that you are still around. big hugs! Juju
(Anonymous) on October 12th, 2007 07:13 pm (UTC)
This is my first visit to your blog and the name just had me laughing. One of my best friends loves, well adores, hmm maybe craves jujubees. We always have trouble finding them. So when we do he goes nuts.

I am sure I will be back to read and comment again. Hope you can drop by my place if you have a chance
Hugs,
Purple Angel
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 13th, 2007 02:06 am (UTC)
Purple Angel,

LOL I am always glad when someone finds the humor in my name. I don't see jujubes candy around much anymore either, and they stick in your teeth! LOL

For sure I will check out your place. I may have stumbled there long ago, I get around usually. Thanks for saying hello, it means a lot. Hugs, Juju
(Anonymous) on October 12th, 2007 08:24 pm (UTC)
I think this is the first blog I delurked on, and it's one of the few that I check every day.
- Southern Expat
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 13th, 2007 02:02 am (UTC)
Southern Expat,

I am soo glad you delurked here possibly first! Your comments have been very helpful and insightful. They mean a lot to me.

Juju
(Anonymous) on October 13th, 2007 04:05 am (UTC)
Popping in to say hi!

Hugs,

Tracy (AngelBrat)
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 13th, 2007 01:33 pm (UTC)
Tracy,

Thanks for stopping by! I enjoy your blog a lot!

Hugs,
Julie
(Anonymous) on October 13th, 2007 05:19 am (UTC)
We lurk on your blog. You do a great job, and we enjoy our time here.

:)
Todd & Suzy
http://associety.blogspot.com/
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 13th, 2007 01:35 pm (UTC)
Todd and Suzy,

I also read your blog, so thanks for stopping by and letting me know you are out there! Big Hugs to you both! Juju
Melsky: Chicken[info]melsky on October 13th, 2007 06:04 pm (UTC)
Hi, I enjoy reading your blog!
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 14th, 2007 02:20 pm (UTC)
melsky,

Nice to meet you! Thanks!
(Anonymous) on October 14th, 2007 01:29 am (UTC)
Happy LOL
You have a very lovely blog. I found my way here thru fellow bloggers. I just wanted to drop in and say howdy and Happy LOL

emily

http://emilysmisguidedadventure.blogspot.com/
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 14th, 2007 02:21 pm (UTC)
Re: Happy LOL
emily,

Thank you very much! If not for fellow bloggers it would be a lot more difficult for all of us to connect! I'll have to check out your blog, thanks for the link.
(Anonymous) on October 15th, 2007 10:22 pm (UTC)
Re: Happy LOL
Hello again Julie,
I have read your blog for a while and as I recently said, I love your voice messages and can hardly wait to hear your sexy voice again. Keep up the posting and by the way......
ever had phone sex? ~winks~
NSVA
jujubees[info]jujubees1 on October 16th, 2007 01:19 pm (UTC)
Re: Happy LOL
NSVA,

LOL Phone sex? Thank you for your compliments about my voice. And thanks for reading. I'll do what I can to come up with more voice posts for you.

Julie
(Anonymous) on October 17th, 2007 03:04 am (UTC)
Re: Happy LOL
Thank you and waits.... patiently. *S*
PS,
don't make me define phone sex.. LOL